family

Half a Year With Spice

It’s been just over six months since the two of us, who had previously sworn off ever again succumbing to the charms of fur babies, threw caution to the wind and adopted Spice after I spotted him online at Animal Aide in St. Thomas. The other night I realized I didn’t know when our 11-year-old cat’s birthday was. Now I know that he is actually 12!  …

Wedding Favours

Last weekend I attended a wedding reception for a couple whose ceremony was held in February in the Dominican Republic.  I wasn’t even invited to the party!  The groom, Zack, is my cousin’s son.  I went as the plus one of another cousin in the family. It was like sneaking into a secret society where I knew everyone.   …

Saying Goodbye

It’s one of those things; you have to have lost someone very dear to you to understand the depth of the sorrow.  There’s no one in your life like your Mom.  No one who loves to hear your little life stories, to know your triumphs and frustrations and to cheer you on relentlessly, even when you haven’t got a chance.   …

RIP Uncle Howard

Our trip to Europe a few years ago was important for many reasons but not the least of which was spending time with Derek’s family there.  Uncle Howard is the patriarch and a beloved one at that. He died yesterday in his 80’s.  He had just lost his sister, my mother-in-law Audrey, in April.  Family say he just sort of gave up after that.   …