Recently, I received a wonderful document from the CNIB about how to talk to someone who is blind. It was full of terrific information and mentioned things I’d never thought of. Like remembering to introduce yourself and if you’re in a group, addressing the person by name, so they know you’re talking to them.
A lot of the tips in the document simply involve not making assumptions. I’ve seen people grab the arm of a blind person and start leading them without asking whether they want to be led. People lose their minds sometimes around someone with a disability. What they’re going through is new to us, but they’re an expert at it. Blindness only means a person can’t see. They’re in control of everything else.
I hope we all know never to pet a service dog. They’re on the job and need to be alert. But there’s so much more we take for granted. Like at a restaurant for example. It’s helpful to let your blind friend know where things are on their plate. “The peas are at 10 o’clock.” I can’t imagine not knowing what’s on my fork until I taste it.
I found this little guide so helpful. I can sum it up in a few short phrases. Act naturally. Be respectful. If you help, say, by pointing out where a door is, remember to do it from their perspective, not yours. If you’re interested, I’ve linked to the guide HERE.
Some of Us Are Lucky
Last year, I had a baby cataract growing in my right eye. My eye doctor didn’t think it was a big deal but it suddenly started affecting my vision. A little more than a year ago, had my lenses replaced. Some patients walk out of the OR with perfect vision. I couldn’t see for two days. I knew it would clear up. But wow, it depressed me and I was miserable. It was difficult and awful. Now, I have 20/20 vision and I don’t take it for granted.
And on that optimistic note, it’s time to vote for a calendar puppy! Canine Companions, trainer of assistance dogs, want your vote, HERE. They will ask you to sign up for emails but you can always opt out. (They are US based, FYI) No purchase is necessary and voting ends June 30th. I mean, wherever they live and whoever they’re for, who doesn’t want to look at PUPPIES?!